You're either looking for a hypnotists for self improvement or searching
on the internet for a hypnosis self help cd or audio tape program.
If you're looking for a professional hypnotist the best one is one who
is referred to you by a client or patient (a true testimonial). If no
referral exists, the first thing is to make sure he/she is certified to do
hypnosis by a recognized agency such as the National Guild of Hypnotists.
If some other agency, Google the agency to determine if the agency is
bonafide. Fees range from $50 per half hour to $200. Some charge session
by session whereas others ask for a series of sessions (usually three or
four) to be paid up front. Session by session is not necessarily the best
approach but certainly if there is a personality conflict you're limited
to that one hypnosis session.
In the absence of a personal referral check with the local chamber of
commerce or better business bureau to review any complaints. Avoid those
who:
>talk down to you.
>won't answer your questions.
>won't keep your information confidential--should be automatic.
It's always a good idea to ask for testimonials or go to their website
for testimonials.
While there, check for the biography and their mission statement. If
they provide success rates, ask for any data to substantiate their
conclusions. For stop smoking and weight management (two typical problems
for which hypnosis is used) often 70 or 80% success rates are claimed.
Remember, national averages of only around 11% of those who stop smoking
stay stopped for a year and only 5% of those who shed weight keep it off
for a year. Thus the 70% unless substantiated by real statistics is
usually one remembering a few successes and forgetting many clients who
came a session or two and never came back. In reality anyone who is
achieving 35 to 40% success rates in these two areas is doing very good.
Generally results are not guaranteed--just as doctors can't guarantee
results. The guarantee is that you will receive their utmost attention and
expertise to your issues during the time of your visit.
Most hypnotists do an intake where they gather information about you.
Then there's usually what is called a "pre-talk" where they tell
you what to expect in terms of what you'll feel and observe while in
trance.
Most hypnotists will do the hypnosis in person with you; on occasion,
you'll have a hypnotist who will program a recording device to deliver the
suggestions as you sit in a chair with a headset. Some have special chairs
that vibrate or headsets with blinking lights and background sound using
specific frequencies. I can't say there's any particular advantage to
these "bells and whistles." It's really a matter of personal
preference.
Hypnotists often give talks at libraries or for various clubs. Ask if
any are scheduled and attend the event.
If you're searching for a self help program through the internet,
you'll find a wide variety of programs available. The question is: Does
the description of the approach in the program make sense to you? Rule of
thumb, just don't rely on a description that says, "Listen to this
program and you'll notice dramatic improvement!" Truth is that 30%
will improve using any program--it's called the placebo effect. And that's
nice, however, if you're not in that 30% it's unlikely you're going to
give another program a shot. And that's kind of silly, isn't it? After all
if you took your car to a mechanic and he charged you to fix the car and
it still didn't work well, would you never take your car to another
mechanic?
Or if you went to one dentist and he didn't do a great job, would you
never go to another dentist?
But, because of this possibility of you only giving it one shot, then
research several programs designed for a similar purpose and choose the
one that makes the most sense to you.
If I told you that I could have you have all your dentistry done
without any analgesic such as Novocain, you'd probably find that a
stretch. Yet if I told you how it's done, then even though you'd still be
doubtful, it would make enough sense to the point you'd give it a shot.
This same power resides in all of us. It's the job of the hypnotist to
guide each of us in unleashing that power to work for us.
Experience: Certainly someone who has been in practice for several
years would be a logical choice.
Follow these guidelines to choose a hypnotist or a self help self
hypnosis audio tape program and you will have taken all reasonable
cautions.
--end of article
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