Five things any self confidence building program should have.

1. Effective coaching. Before you can build confidence, it's important to identify and stop the habits erode your confidence. Unless the program you choose addresses the unconscious mental programs that erode your self confidence, it's like using a band-aid on a stomach ulcer. Gallows's laugh, poor posture, compliment give away, chameleon, door man give away, jealousy, perfectionism, are just a few habits the program coaches you in overcoming.

2. Does the program address fear? To be effective a confidence building program must address the fear of what others think of them. What you Think of Me is None of My Business is the name of a book by Rev. Terry Cole Whittaker and also the theme of this program.

3. There is the limbic (emotional primitive), brain and the reticular (thinking), brain. While the reticular brain may comprehend the goals, the limbic brain often lags reticular brain. This can be particularly frustrating and unless this is dealt with effectively, it's real easy to abandon the program. This program is aimed at bringing the limbic brain up to date to agree with the reticular brain.