It's always a good idea to ask for testimonials or go to their website for testimonials.
While there, check for the biography and their mission statement. If they provide success rates, ask for any data to substantiate their conclusions. For stop smoking and weight management (two typical problems for which hypnosis is used) often 70 or 80% success rates are claimed. Remember, national averages of only around 11% of those who stop smoking stay stopped for a year and only 5% of those who shed weight keep it off for a year. Thus the 70% unless substantiated by real statistics is usually one remembering a few successes and forgetting many clients who came a session or two and never came back. In reality anyone who is achieving 35 to 40% success rates in these two areas is doing very good.
Generally results are not guaranteed--just as doctors can't guarantee results. The guarantee is that you will receive their utmost attention and expertise to your issues during the time of your visit.
Most hypnotists do an intake where they gather information about you. Then there's usually what is called a "pre-talk" where they tell you what to expect in terms of what you'll feel and observe while in trance.
Most hypnotists will do the hypnosis in person with you; on occasion, you'll have a hypnotist who will program a recording device to deliver the suggestions as you sit in a chair with a headset. Some have special chairs that vibrate or headsets with blinking lights and background sound using specific frequencies. I can't say there's any particular advantage to these "bells and whistles." It's really a matter of personal preference.
Hypnotists often give talks at libraries or for various clubs. Ask if any are scheduled and attend the event.
If you're searching for a self help program through the internet, you'll find a wide variety of programs available. The question is: Does the description of the approach in the program make sense to you? Rule of thumb, just don't rely on a description that says, "Listen to this program and you'll notice dramatic improvement!" Truth is that 30% will improve using any program--it's called the placebo effect. And that's nice, however, if you're not in that 30% it's unlikely you're going to give another program a shot. And that's kind of silly, isn't it? After all if you took your car to a mechanic and he charged you to fix the car and it still didn't work well, would you never take your car to another mechanic?
Or if you went to one dentist and he didn't do a great job, would you never go to another dentist?
But, because of this possibility of you only giving it one shot, then research several programs designed for a similar purpose and choose the one that makes the most sense to you.
If I told you that I could have you have all your dentistry done without any analgesic such as Novocain, you'd probably find that a stretch. Yet if I told you how it's done, then even though you'd still be doubtful, it would make enough sense to the point you'd give it a shot.
This same power resides in all of us. It's the job of the hypnotist to guide each of us in unleashing that power to work for us.
Experience: Certainly someone who has been in practice for several years would be a logical choice.
Follow these guidelines to choose a hypnotist or a self help self hypnosis audio tape program and you will have taken all reasonable cautions.
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Richard Kuhns B.S.Ch.E. NGH certified, a prominent figure in the personal change field. His aim is to make it possible for anyone desiring to become more assertive and confident to do so.
For more information please visit
http://www.DStressDoc.com/Self_Confidence.html
He has several websites with self help materials:
Self help mp3 downloads for you personal change and improvement plan at http://www.DstressDoc.com
How to Build and Improve Self Worth at http://www.SelfEsteemCure.com
Stop Binging and Comfort Eating at http://www.EmotionalEatingCure.com
Over come panic disorder with agoraphobia at http://www.PanicBusters.com
Pendulums for self discovery at http://www.PendulumWarehouse.com
Special Diet for Morgellons and Skin Parasites at http://www.SkinParasitesEbook.com
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1. Effective coaching. Before you can build confidence, it's important to identify and stop the habits erode your confidence. Unless the program you choose addresses the unconscious mental programs that erode your self confidence, it's like using a band-aid on a stomach ulcer. Gallows's laugh, poor posture, compliment give away, chameleon, door man give away, jealousy, perfectionism, are just a few habits the program coaches you in overcoming.
2. Does the program address fear? To be effective a confidence building program must address the fear of what others think of them. What you Think of Me is None of My Business is the name of a book by Rev. Terry Cole Whittaker and also the theme of this program.
3. There is the limbic (emotional primitive), brain and the reticular (thinking), brain. While the reticular brain may comprehend the goals, the limbic brain often lags reticular brain. This can be particularly frustrating and unless this is dealt with effectively, it's real easy to abandon the program. This program is aimed at bringing the limbic brain up to date to agree with the reticular brain.
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5.. Many programs use subliminal suggestions and don't tell you what they are; or, they use highly complex suggestions which can not be processed by the subconscious brain. Because of how the brain processes words and phrases, many suggestions used actually erode self confidence. The programs I use all define the subliminal suggestions used--no hidden messages.
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